Thursday, July 7, 2011

Should L stay friends with M?

I did a relationship reading using the Legacy of the Divine Tarot by Ciro Marcetti.

L - starting new pursuits, perhaps intellectual ones, making life changes, getting ready for action. You are ready to make positive changes in your life.

What you want out of the relationship - King of Swords, Reversed. Have you been burned before? Maybe you are tired of stern men who take control or take the upper hand in your relationships. Perhaps you have been the caregiver for too long and want relationships where you don't feel like you have to be the one taking care of everything or "fixing" things.

What you get out of the relationship - V Faith, Reversed. This card can be about bucking the trends and going against "normal," marching to the beat of your own drummer. Unfortunately, it can also indicate losing faith and feeling drained. Is this relationship wearing you down and making you feel pessimistic?

M - this card represents your friend. Poor, begging, whether or not he has resources, this person may be continually looking for a hand-out (either financially or emotionally). No matter how much people give or how much he has, does pessimism rule? Does he seem to always need more?

What M wants - 8 of wands, reversed. He isn't going to change his attitude anytime soon. The way things are suit him just find. And he's not (voluntarily) going anywhere.

What M gets from the relationship - 10 of Wands. Whether or not it's true, M feels like he has a lot of burden to carry. With the surrounding cards, and especially the 5 of Coins, I would imagine a lot of this is due more to his own imagination than what is truly going on in his life.

Possible point of conflict in the relationship - 7 of coins. L will work hard and believe that her efforts will pay off in the end. She is ready to roll up her sleeves and do what it takes to make her life better. She is putting in effort and waiting to see the fruits of her labor. M, however, may not believe that the hard work is going to pay off. He may try to bring negativity into L's life and bring down her efforts. He may see the world as a cold and uncaring place, and say, "poor me, I never get what I want in life" while L says, "what can I do to take charge of my own life and make it better?" This could also indicate that M is asking for too much financial or emotional support from L.

Outcome - 6 of Swords. A traditional meaning for this card is leaving sorrows behind. This seems to indicate that you may be leaving this relationship in the past. Cutting off ties with anyone can be painful, even if the relationships are negative or damaging to our self-esteem or sense of self-worth. But we all need to find our own way in life. And we are always better off for it. If we choose to stay around people who bring us down, we will end up with Faith, Reversed.
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1 comment:

  1. Honestly, this wasn't what I was expecting at all.